Targeted solutions for the life you want to live
Stress, anxiety, ADHD, a child in a hard moment. Different challenges need different tools. Choose the course that best fits your life, your needs, and where you are right now.
Stress Regulation
Carry less and handle more. Practical tools for stress and anxiety as they happen, in three targeted versions, adult, youth, and junior, each written and filmed for that age.
Explore stress regulationThriving with ADHD
Focus, follow through, and steadier emotions in an ADHD brain, where standard stress advice tends to fall down. Eight modules, neurodiversity affirming, built around strengths as much as challenges.
Explore Thriving with ADHDCo-Regulation is for the parent or caregiver steadying a child through a hard moment. It is open now and sold separately. A course on performance under sustained pressure is on the way.
In real-world use across Canada and the United States
The 3A Toolkit has been used for twelve years in schools, one-on-one therapy sessions, and group clinics.
The three steps
Each step helps a person notice what is happening, meet it with more choice, and take a small action that supports regulation.
Notice what is happening. What are you thinking, and what are you feeling in your body? Awareness helps you catch stress early.
Name the feeling, for example I feel stressed or I feel anxious. Naming it begins the process of regulating.
Use body calming and helpful thinking strategies that fit the moment, so stress becomes more manageable.
Courses for every stage
One method, offered as editions for different ages and settings. Start with one, or bring the whole family together.
Adult Edition
Stress regulation for adults, the full course with reader, videos, and reflections.
See what is in it Available nowJunior Edition
The same steps, shaped for younger children. Read together with a grown-up.
See what is in it Available nowYouth Edition
The same steps, shaped for teens and youth.
See what is in itChoose the Family bundle to unlock the Adult, Junior, and Youth editions under one family code, for up to 10 people. Your whole household shares the same simple language for stress.
See family pricingThriving with ADHD
A neurodiversity-affirming course that works with strengths as well as challenges. Eight modules, in three layers.
See what is in it Available nowCo-Regulation
For the grown-ups supporting a child through stress. Share your calm, not their chaos. A separate course.
See what is in itPerformance Under Pressure
Sustained pressure degrades judgement before it degrades effort. Applied stress regulation for demanding roles.
What people are saying
Early feedback from clinicians who have used the 3A Toolkit.
Overall, it is fantastic. The simplicity of the layout makes it feel really accessible, it flows beautifully from one step to the next, and the videos are excellent. A fabulous creation.
I like it a lot, and I would pay for it. It is easy to follow and orient yourself, with no dead ends. The videos are all good and the timing is reasonable, and the activities are well done. So impressive.
A very user-friendly and easy-to-follow toolkit. It’s grounded in research while remaining highly practical, making it accessible and engaging. The content is presented in a way that can effectively support a wide range of individuals across different ages, learning styles, and needs. There truly is something for everyone.
Frequently asked questions
The 3A Toolkit is a practical way to work with stress and anxiety, taught as a guided online course. It is built on three steps: Awareness, Assign a Label, and Action.
The Adult, Junior and Youth editions are all open now, as are Thriving with ADHD and Co-Regulation, which are separate courses.
It is online. You read at your own pace, watch a short video for each part, and reflect in your own words. It works well on a phone.
No. It provides education and self-help tools and does not replace care from a qualified professional.
With your mobile number. We text you a six digit code, so there is no password to remember and no app to install.
One family code that unlocks the Adult, Junior, and Youth editions for up to 10 people in a household, so everyone shares the same language for stress.
Your written reflections stay on your own device. They are not sent to a server.
Created by a therapist and researcher
The 3A Toolkit was created by Dr. Meg Kapil, an educational psychologist and therapist in Victoria, BC. It grew out of her doctoral research on stress, mental health, and self-regulated learning.
About the founderReady to begin?
Start the Adult course today, or see the family bundle and the other editions.